The assumption is that if a person likes receiving the whip or the cane or the strapon that they are a submissive, which means that the person wielding the whip must be their dominant issuing orders and imposing their will. Yet up and down the land out in the quiet suburbs go the unnoticed practitioners of domestic corporal punishment; the loving couples screaming as the cane or the whip batters their flesh who don't bother with all the complexity of traditional BDSM because their tools do the talking.

Sales of corporal punishment tools to couples not involved in any BDSM scene are booming because being spanked or anally violated is not the underground avant-garde we all think it is. Jamie posits that there is a deep seated need hidden right down inside many people's psychology (or physiology) for hard spanking and suggests that the suburban spanker is far more common that we imagine, suggesting that perhaps they are the most numerous kink group yet they go unnoticed, that their partners aren't dominants and the bottoms aren't submissives. The non-submissive who just likes to (or is it needs to?) bottom goes undocumented and this books seeks to tell their story.

Jamie Leigh brings us a glimpse into the hidden world of the domestic, no-domination, no fuss suburban spanker enjoying all the benefits that corporal punishment brings to a marriage away from any 'scene' and all our BDSM complications. David our bottom gets absolutely walloped by his wife's classic British school gym shoes before they escalate into belts, straps, whips (of the world) and canes. Beth his shy unassuming civil servant wife becomes liberated by spanking as it vents her frustrations from work and gives her license to say what she needs from him sexually after years of reticence and shyness stealing her voice. Beth discovers that a spanked husband becomes a totally devoted husband thus driving her on to hurt him more.

This is about a journey over many years so we look back to David's formative years and what made him a spankee. We find out how the strict women in a young man's life imprint on his impressionable mind as he comes into sexual maturity shaping him into becoming a spankee for the rest of his life dependent on the pain that only a strict wife can deliver for true satisfaction. And of course we get a little tour of pre-internet history and the spanking trials and tribulations that men went through in Britain before the modern era.

WARNING. the diarists in this book start out as amateur spankers so it begins light, but they grow into hard players so be aware of what you signing up to read. David gets punished until he is left with welts and bruises, and whilst there marriage is domination free, the corporal punishment is harsh. Finally, you will find out about the hard femdom relationship David had as a young man that did not end well, and that's a tale of a man in servitude learning lessons.

It's not all serious either; spanking marriages always lead to funny moments, silly talks mid-session, and these two are no different. Finally, this is a tale of total love and devotion that few vanilla marriages experience because corporal punishment is the ultimate bonding experience, and these two go all out becoming more and more in love with each other - by the end you may want their marriage.

PS there's historic photographs of strict women in their spanking outfits dating back to the early days of photography demonstrating this hidden world is far older than we imagine, plus some classic spanking magazines that you might remember.

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