No drama discipline
The majority of parents commonly equate "punishment" with "discipline." For example, if a five-year-old boy slaps his older sister because she's taking up too much space in his room, parents might respond with a time-out or other negative consequences.
However, this kind of reaction is only effective in the short term. When parents focus solely on easing their child's immediate discomfort, they miss important opportunities to strengthen their bond and promote healthy growth.
The concept of "discipline" actually means "instruction," which is quite different from the quick time-outs hurriedly given by stressed parents. To adopt a more effective approach to discipline, parents must change their perspective on its purpose.
Only a minority of parents openly acknowledge their intention to instruct their children. Most have learned from personal experience that harsh punishments don't foster trust and openness, essential for a healthy parent-child relationship.